If you do nothing else. If you can’t do anything else. Do this:
write a gratitude journal.
I have been doing it everyday now since the beginning of January. I have tried before, but like with everything I have done in the past, took it too far. Tried to write a page full of things. In pretty handwriting. BIG things. It doesn’t work like that (well, not for me anyway.)
In my bullet journal I have a really teeny tiny slot to write down three things everyday I was grateful about. And for the first time yesterday it really paid off!
It had been quite an exhausting week (and weekend), mainly because I was still not completely recovered from my flu and suddenly my hubby got a gout attack in his foot. If you are familiar with gout, you’ll know the infection will make a person completely immobile until it’s cured. I missed some nice appointments I had made with friends and so on.
In the past the clear signs of a sinus infection that appeared last night would’ve been the last straw.
Instead I did this:
I took out my bullet journal and wrote my three lines (and I will make an exception sharing these with you now):
– My sister-in-law took our daughter to a friend’s birthday party (so I saved a trip on the subway and bus with two kids).
– My goddaughter (in lack of a better word) came over to play and the girls played so sweetly together it was a joy to watch
– Hubby’s foot is possibly on the mend (as he can actually sit for some time and bear SOME weight on the foot).
And as I was writing my list I was filled with joy from the past day’s events and actually had a good and worry free night of sleep.
Concentrate on the good, do not dwell on the bad.
One of my guidelines for the year will be the same as Gretchen Rubin’s: “Let it go”. Applies perfectly here too.